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 One of the deepest fears one must face on the journey of enlightenment and that of the twin flame, is fear of loss. We have lost so much, those we love, our family, friends; some for the better, some the worse. Though, the true core pain is the loss of aspects of the self, the divine self, that of the soul. The incarnation process in itself is a trauma, from the original split from source, to that of the soul split into twin flames. Only a love this strong can maintain such a massive split of the soul into an incarnated body. You are magnatized to your twin in such a passionate way as it is your own soul, your eternal love embodied in the person before you. In terms of soul fragmentation, each soul aspect agrees to follow certain timelines, with certain lessons, families, lineages and traumas to overcome. As highly evolved souls this is the training ground to assist humanity. We are already doing this in the higher dimensions, if not the 3D. Every person who crosses your path, you are not just interacting with their physical self but also their energy, and their higher dimensional selves (depending on their soul evolution), train yourself to embody this ability to see exactly how this is. Every meeting with another is an energy exchange, are you getting value from it? When the soul splits, agreed at the soul level or not, this can be for evolution or a protection mechanism for the physical self to carry out functioning in a relatively healthy manner, they can travel as low as hell or even split into the person who abused you, for example. This is what causes control and domination of another. For example, a parent abuses a child, the child is helpless and the soul energy becomes distorted, fragments and enters the field of the abuser. This acts almost like an implant and allows them to control you externally and unconsciously, even into adulthood. You see children under the negative influence of their parents even up to their death. Soul fragment retrieval and healing is an essential part of twin flame healing and evolution. Otherwise your twin is feeling on repeat the trauma of your parents/abusers/another soul etc and it repels them. This repellent energy is a trigger for the self to heal, it may be painful, but remember your twin is your beloved mirror, your greatest healer, lover and teacher. Forgive them, as you forgive your self. You find freedom and peace.